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TOPIC: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 7075 Views
Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 28 Jan 2021 21:27 #362196
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Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.
Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled - if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls. The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting! My thread: Aiming to be better Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com |
Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 29 Jan 2021 00:53 #362206
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One who has given up hope is without a G‑d. One who sees hope in each day is already free |
Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 29 Jan 2021 01:03 #362208
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Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 29 Jan 2021 02:40 #362215
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Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com
My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE |
Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 29 Jan 2021 03:55 #362224
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Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 29 Jan 2021 04:43 #362230
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Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.
Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled - if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls. The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting! My thread: Aiming to be better Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com |
Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 29 Jan 2021 07:28 #362239
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Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 29 Jan 2021 09:00 #362242
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Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 29 Jan 2021 13:57 #362262
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In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)
Great free resources: My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life! Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/ If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here: https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge |
Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 29 Jan 2021 14:57 #362268
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Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.
Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled - if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls. The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting! My thread: Aiming to be better Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com |
Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 01 Feb 2021 01:57 #362421
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Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.
Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled - if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls. The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting! My thread: Aiming to be better Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com |
Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 05 Feb 2021 03:53 #362780
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Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.
Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled - if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls. The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting! My thread: Aiming to be better Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com |
Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 05 Feb 2021 14:38 #362808
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"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @ ahavayirah@gmail.com |
Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 05 Feb 2021 15:03 #362810
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Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.
Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled - if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls. The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting! My thread: Aiming to be better Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com |
Re: Aiming to be better. Introducing myself :) 05 Feb 2021 20:23 #362832
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Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.
Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled - if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls. The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting! My thread: Aiming to be better Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com |