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A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety
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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!
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A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 29 Dec 2021 15:17 #375373

  • Yaakov5782
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Hi Guys,

I'm here like everyone and want to be clean.  I have two months of clean eyes under my belt but a few times of actually m****ing.  Cumulative I have three months of clean eyes! 

I really love the idea of getting to 90; I hope you'll support me on the way. 

fyi, I've had a difficult past related to abuse in my family, please refain from explicit posts as they trigger me. 

Kol Tov!! 
Yaakov

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 29 Dec 2021 19:18 #375379

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Hi Yaakov,

Nobody deserves to be abused, especially by people who are supposed to love and protect us.  My heart goes out to you and I hope you can find healing.

We are here to support you to your goal of 90 and way beyond that as well!
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @  ahavayirah@gmail.com

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 30 Dec 2021 03:44 #375387

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Hi David,

Thanks for your heartfelt words.  I feel great having contact with the network vis-a-vis this site.  

Yaakov

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 30 Dec 2021 12:11 #375392

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Welcome. It should be with hatzlocha! You have already Bh accomplished a lot!
Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com

My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned

                    My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 30 Dec 2021 13:40 #375394

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hey welcome just wanted to tell you how awesome you are for being clean for 2 months already good for you and hopefully this site will help you continue to grow

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 30 Dec 2021 14:11 #375396

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Welcome! Please check out these great free resources: 
ebook- The Battle of the Generation 
Audio series- The Fight
See below in my signature for the links.

​Hatzlocha!
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 31 Dec 2021 00:13 #375402

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Thank you for your Chizzuk and kind heartfelt words omoH.  What's your story??

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 31 Dec 2021 00:14 #375403

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Thank you for your Chizzuk and kind words.  I feel a new sense of connection and support through this forum.  Thank you Hashem Help Me!!

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 31 Dec 2021 00:15 #375404

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Thank you for your support and resource links!! I like learning more about the neuroscience of ninety days!!  What's your story??

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 31 Dec 2021 00:16 #375405

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Thank you everyone B"H for your heart felt support.  I'm keeping it in the big picture and viewing things cumulatively.  I feel great about three months basically eyes clean!! Now I want to do three more!! 

Everyday the beauty of life can outshine the false idols of lust and s*x

Yaakov 

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 03 Jan 2022 03:14 #375459

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When I reply in here I feel connected and accountable! Thanks for all your support and solidarity and community!!

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 03 Jan 2022 03:37 #375463

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just a good guy struggling with some basic issues not easy but i am holding by 43 days clean!! 

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 03 Jan 2022 20:19 #375483

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Awesome!  Let’s be companions on here!

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 03 Jan 2022 20:22 #375484

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I’m starting a new job this week! I’m psyched!  Let’s be there for and share each others’ accomplishments!! 

Re: A Day a Post-On the way to Ninety 04 Jan 2022 13:57 #375501

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Yaakov5782 wrote on 03 Jan 2022 20:22:
I’m starting a new job this week! I’m psyched!  Let’s be there for and share each others’ accomplishments!! 

hey good luck! i hope everything goes smoothly at your new job. much hatzlachah  
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