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Lets get this party started
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Re: Lets get this party started 06 Jul 2021 14:23 #370538

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Congratulations on 14 days clean, that's 2 whole weeks!!
it may seem a small number but in reality it's a big chunk of time in which life happened.

About people who go 100 days with out mb, most of them also once thought that this is not possible, and that there must be something wrong with me, and many of them also went through years of endlessly starting and falling.
​But at some point something went and it worked and bezh that can be you, this time or next time.

Re: Lets get this party started 07 Jul 2021 19:24 #370583

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Soooo?
We getting back up or wat?

Re: Lets get this party started 08 Jul 2021 17:11 #370619

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I fell again this morning. 
Dont worry tho, I have a solid plan this time to stay clean. 
My mentor gave me the idea to make a plan with this:
Preview attachment The Plan (21963) .pdfThe Plan (21963) .pdf119 KB
The plan is to not discuss these inyanim with anyone for this next week- that was what had been really been machshil me so many times. I will block hangouts, whatsapp numbers, and even GYE. My mentor tried this for a month of not discussing porn, masturbation, etc and he was able to keep clean for 30 days!!

I hope Hashem provides me with the gevurah to keep with this plan for a week. After that, I will iyh renew the plan for even longer. So wish me luck. See you in a week!
My thread: Let's get this party started

Who the heck is Benoni?

Procrastination is something best put off until tomorrow. -Gerald Vaughan

Re: Lets get this party started 08 Jul 2021 17:36 #370620

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I like that plan. The fact is that if you handle mud, even for the purpose of cleaning it up, you'll get dirty. We all hope this plan will succeed! Keep us posted...
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
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Re: Lets get this party started 08 Jul 2021 18:54 #370622

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Good luck!
Looking forward to hearing from you soon.
Feel free to contact me happyyid613@gmail.com
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Re: Lets get this party started 08 Jul 2021 19:01 #370623

Interesting approach ....sounds like an 
idea from the SA WHite Book. 18 Wheeler....it's 
called stop feeding the addiction.

Re: Lets get this party started 08 Jul 2021 19:18 #370624

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בינוני wrote on 08 Jul 2021 17:11:
I fell again this morning. 
Dont worry tho, I have a solid plan this time to stay clean. 
My mentor gave me the idea to make a plan with this:
Preview attachment The Plan (21963) .pdfThe Plan (21963) .pdf119 KB
The plan is to not discuss these inyanim with anyone for this next week- that was what had been really been machshil me so many times. I will block hangouts, whatsapp numbers, and even GYE. My mentor tried this for a month of not discussing porn, masturbation, etc and he was able to keep clean for 30 days!!

I hope Hashem provides me with the gevurah to keep with this plan for a week. After that, I will iyh renew the plan for even longer. So wish me luck. See you in a week!

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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."

"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."

- General Grant



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Re: Lets get this party started 20 Jul 2021 23:50 #371092

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It's almost 2 weeks...
How's it going?
Feel free to contact me happyyid613@gmail.com
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Re: Lets get this party started 21 Jul 2021 23:04 #371114

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Im back. Baruch Hashem the plan worked great. I initially decided to do it for only a week but then decided to keep doing it until after the 9 days. Since then I kinda forgot about unblocking gye until today so now im 2 weeks clean bh. 



Still have LOTS of taivos tho...
My thread: Let's get this party started

Who the heck is Benoni?

Procrastination is something best put off until tomorrow. -Gerald Vaughan

Re: Lets get this party started 23 Jul 2021 20:46 #371150

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After 14 days clean, I fell twice to mb and porn and once to sexting as well in the last 12 hours. The culprit: an unfiltered device. Can I get some help please on dealing with WTH syndrome and the lack of regret because it felt so good?
My thread: Let's get this party started

Who the heck is Benoni?

Procrastination is something best put off until tomorrow. -Gerald Vaughan

Re: Lets get this party started 25 Jul 2021 18:48 #371181

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Please I really need help from the oilam. I fell again last night. I don't see myself stopping any time soon...
My thread: Let's get this party started

Who the heck is Benoni?

Procrastination is something best put off until tomorrow. -Gerald Vaughan

Re: Lets get this party started 26 Jul 2021 17:44 #371203

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Right now, maybe just try to get away from it. Do whatever, get out of the mindset of needing it. Distract yourself, scare yourself, just get out of the zone where it's the best thing, and you'll realize it's not all that, even in the moment of doing it.

Re: Lets get this party started 26 Jul 2021 18:20 #371207

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בינוני wrote on 25 Jul 2021 18:48:
Please I really need help from the oilam. I fell again last night. I don't see myself stopping any time soon...

Why do you want to stop?
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @  ahavayirah@gmail.com

Re: Lets get this party started 27 Jul 2021 03:02 #371219

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I honestly, don't even think i can stop at this point- i fell again today. 
My thread: Let's get this party started

Who the heck is Benoni?

Procrastination is something best put off until tomorrow. -Gerald Vaughan

Re: Lets get this party started 27 Jul 2021 06:02 #371226

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Well I had a nice video of me smashing in my unfiltered tablet but its more trouble than its worth to try to post it on this site. The point is I davened tonight for the gevurah to get rid of that device and within 5 minutes, I was smashing in the screen with a hammer. Tefilah works!!!
My thread: Let's get this party started

Who the heck is Benoni?

Procrastination is something best put off until tomorrow. -Gerald Vaughan
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