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Reaching 90 days of no touch,mz”L,& porn!
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Re: Reaching 90 days of no touch,mz”L,& porn! 15 Dec 2020 04:08 #358735

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Sometimes you feel "shtark" and sometimes "emotional". Just remember that even when feeling emotional you still have the shtark in you!

How are you doing? Did you hold up?

Re: Reaching 90 days of no touch,mz”L,& porn! 15 Dec 2020 06:08 #358743

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Grant,
My vote - for whatever it's worth - is that SAE is unquestionably Miracle # 5 (even if he "fell" - he put up one _____ of a battle)

SAE,
Can your next post be a bracha to us? The zchusim that you have are pretty powerful...just wondering if those merits can translate into added S"D to the chevra.

Good Night guys, get some well deserved rest

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

 Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro 

Feel free to reach out to me at
jackz90dys@gmail.com

Re: Reaching 90 days of no touch,mz”L,& porn! 15 Dec 2020 21:32 #358785

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Hey, what's up S.A.E?

How did we do?

I have confidence you will share good news!
But even if its "not good news", you put up aa hefty fight.

Keep strong and know we are here.


Wishing you a happy Chanukah!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Reaching 90 days of no touch,mz”L,& porn! 16 Dec 2020 05:00 #358807

I would like to share some good news and some sad news:( !!!!!!!! The good news is I just got my new iPhone filtered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! After falling today.... I decided that’s IT!!!! Hoping this step will bring me closer to hashem bezH!!! And have clarity and should help us all become better people bezH!!
“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.” 

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle” 

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out! 
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Re: Reaching 90 days of no touch,mz”L,& porn! 16 Dec 2020 05:03 #358808

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Shtarkandemotional wrote on 16 Dec 2020 05:00:
I would like to share some good news and some sad news:( !!!!!!!! The good news is I just got my new iPhone filtered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! After falling today.... I decided that’s IT!!!! Hoping this step will bring me closer to hashem bezH!!! And have clarity and should help us all become better people bezH!!

Wow! Gamechanger.
Don’t think about the fall for even a moment.
You’re a new man now in a completely different matzav.
You are amazing. Simply amazing.
A true warrior of Hakadosh Baruch Hu.

Hatzlocha!!!
Stay strong and stay in touch!!!

Gut Chanuka,


YeshivaGuy

Re: Reaching 90 days of no touch,mz”L,& porn! 16 Dec 2020 15:17 #358826

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Shtarkandemotional wrote on 16 Dec 2020 05:00:
I would like to share some good news and some sad news:( !!!!!!!! The good news is I just got my new iPhone filtered!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! After falling today.... I decided that’s IT!!!! Hoping this step will bring me closer to hashem bezH!!! And have clarity and should help us all become better people bezH!!

My dear SAMmy,

That's great news! Now I'd like to suggest that you start working on understanding that lust isn't a necessity. In addition to a filter on our devices, we must install filters on ourselves. We must revamp our approach to the entire concept of sexuality, and not feel complacent after installing filters. At the end of the day without internal changes, all the methods in the world will eventually not be enough. 

Looking forward to reading many more of your inspiring posts! 

                                   Grant

Re: Reaching 90 days of no touch,mz”L,& porn! 16 Dec 2020 22:06 #358852

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.... In addition to a filter on our devices, we must install filters on ourselves. We must revamp our approach to the entire concept of sexuality, and not feel complacent after installing filters. At the end of the day without internal changes, all the methods in the world will eventually not be enough....

                                 

Grant,

Those lines are pure gadlus. Precisely why nothing worked for me for 31 years. Taphsic is no more than a gimmick if unaccompanied by deep change.

The feeling that such transition has occurred cannot be described in words, but must be experienced. I believe that BEZ"H I am tasting it for the first time in my life.

And what Siyata D'shmaya it was to have found such a support team to help me commit to such change...I view the 10-20 minutes daily that I spend on this forum as my reward for the tough nisyonos that I am approaching (throughout the day) in a whole new light.

​A Freilichen, chevra!

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

 Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/356161-Intro 

Feel free to reach out to me at
jackz90dys@gmail.com
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