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Re: Singularity's Journey 16 Jan 2017 10:25 #303241

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Recovery should be with hatzlachah.
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GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."

Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Singularity's Journey 16 Jan 2017 13:43 #303254

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hell of a post need to digest this....
Hashem loves you for facing this with a good heart and not just giving up 
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B'hatzlacha
very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: Singularity's Journey 16 Jan 2017 14:06 #303260

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Singularity wrote:
I'm just checking in


Please don't check out
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!


I really appreciate your posts, and you too!!
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Re: Singularity's Journey 16 Jan 2017 14:44 #303268

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Thanks guys.
I'm getting tired of giving up. Giving up is too exciting. Golden ticket to doing whatever I want.
I'm old. I'm set in my boring ways. Thanks for reading my rants y'all.
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
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Re: Singularity's Journey 16 Jan 2017 14:51 #303269

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Singularity wrote on 16 Jan 2017 14:44:
Thanks guys.
I'm getting tired of giving up. Giving up is too exciting. Golden ticket to doing whatever I want.
I'm old. I'm set in my boring ways. Thanks for reading my rants y'all.

I'm older.
 don'tI remind me.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."

Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.

Re: Singularity's Journey 16 Jan 2017 15:07 #303273

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cordnoy wrote on 16 Jan 2017 14:51:

Singularity wrote on 16 Jan 2017 14:44:
Thanks guys.
I'm getting tired of giving up. Giving up is too exciting. Golden ticket to doing whatever I want.
I'm old. I'm set in my boring ways. Thanks for reading my rants y'all.

I'm older.
 don'tI remind me.

may you be forever boring.
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"
One day... At A Time :-D

Introduce Yourself and get a free karma point from yours truley!
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Re: Singularity's Journey 16 Jan 2017 17:10 #303287

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Singularity wrote on 16 Jan 2017 07:49:

Huh. Look at that! Long, deep post! Who knew!!!?


My thoughts exactly!

Someone recently gave me some advice that I wonder if it would apply to your shabbos meal thing..

There was this girl who ticked all the boxes for me.. I actually asked her out. Like for shidduchim, marriage etc. ... I created our entire future in my mind... I spoke to my therapist about it. I told him I create this imaginary connection in my head...

...BH I've come a far way from there. Mentally, right now, I tried to replace this imaginary visage girl with my wife, sitting across me... I did so. It was a nice feeling. I see I have a lot to work on.

Why give her special attention? Because she's a girl and I'm attracted to her. It's the lust speaking...

Hatzlocha. Maybe ask someone more competent if it's healthy going to the meeting if she'll always be there. Weigh it up.

Better seeing these women than other women we sometimes look up...

Re: Singularity's Journey 16 Jan 2017 17:24 #303291

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I read your post. I usually don't read long posts. I really relate to the father issue. My father would tell me the same things.

Well, you're going to have one hell of a 4th step!
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Re: Singularity's Journey 17 Jan 2017 08:37 #303348

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thanks613 wrote on 16 Jan 2017 17:10:

Singularity wrote on 16 Jan 2017 07:49:

Huh. Look at that! Long, deep post! Who knew!!!?


My thoughts exactly!

Someone recently gave me some advice that I wonder if it would apply to your shabbos meal thing..

There was this girl who ticked all the boxes for me.. I actually asked her out. Like for shidduchim, marriage etc. ... I created our entire future in my mind... I spoke to my therapist about it. I told him I create this imaginary connection in my head...

...BH I've come a far way from there. Mentally, right now, I tried to replace this imaginary visage girl with my wife, sitting across me... I did so. It was a nice feeling. I see I have a lot to work on.

Why give her special attention? Because she's a girl and I'm attracted to her. It's the lust speaking...

Hatzlocha. Maybe ask someone more competent if it's healthy going to the meeting if she'll always be there. Weigh it up.

Better seeing these women than other women we sometimes look up...



Haha! Must be the old-timers, oh I mean altzeimers, kickin' in.. (bli ayin Hora)

It's slightly different. I'm not envisioning a future with her. Just lusting s'all. Well, BH not getting so far. But knowing I WANT to lust. Haha. Gotta surrender that. PLEASE HASHEM!!!

But props for the self-idea of speaking to someone.
I shall do that right now.

Thanks Shlomo. Thanks for non tl:dr-ing it. It means a lot to me.
We should join FARTING - Fathers Acting Recklessly Towards Innocent Neshomeles, Gevalt!!!
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"
One day... At A Time :-D

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Re: Singularity's Journey 17 Jan 2017 17:00 #303397

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Singularity wrote on 17 Jan 2017 08:37:
Haha! Must be the old-timers, oh I mean altzeimers, kickin' in.. (bli ayin Hora)

It's slightly different. I'm not envisioning a future with her. Just lusting s'all. Well, BH not getting so far. But knowing I WANT to lust. Haha. Gotta surrender that. PLEASE HASHEM!!!

But props for the self-idea of speaking to someone.
I shall do that right now.

Thanks Shlomo. Thanks for non tl:dr-ing it. It means a lot to me.
We should join FARTING - Fathers Acting Recklessly Towards Innocent Neshomeles, Gevalt!!!

What is that? Also, I'm very immature. I liked your acronym.
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Re: Singularity's Journey 17 Jan 2017 17:05 #303398

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tl:dr = too long, didn't read.

Re: Singularity's Journey 18 Jan 2017 07:53 #303470

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Shlomo24 wrote on 17 Jan 2017 17:00:

Singularity wrote on 17 Jan 2017 08:37:
Haha! Must be the old-timers, oh I mean altzeimers, kickin' in.. (bli ayin Hora)

It's slightly different. I'm not envisioning a future with her. Just lusting s'all. Well, BH not getting so far. But knowing I WANT to lust. Haha. Gotta surrender that. PLEASE HASHEM!!!

But props for the self-idea of speaking to someone.
I shall do that right now.

Thanks Shlomo. Thanks for non tl:dr-ing it. It means a lot to me.
We should join FARTING - Fathers Acting Recklessly Towards Innocent Neshomeles, Gevalt!!!

What is that? Also, I'm very immature. I liked your acronym.

Thanks. I'm not immature and I like the acronym
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"
One day... At A Time :-D

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Re: Singularity's Journey 18 Jan 2017 13:52 #303489

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Singularity wrote on 18 Jan 2017 07:53:

Shlomo24 wrote on 17 Jan 2017 17:00:

Singularity wrote on 17 Jan 2017 08:37:
Haha! Must be the old-timers, oh I mean altzeimers, kickin' in.. (bli ayin Hora)

It's slightly different. I'm not envisioning a future with her. Just lusting s'all. Well, BH not getting so far. But knowing I WANT to lust. Haha. Gotta surrender that. PLEASE HASHEM!!!

But props for the self-idea of speaking to someone.
I shall do that right now.

Thanks Shlomo. Thanks for non tl:dr-ing it. It means a lot to me.
We should join FARTING - Fathers Acting Recklessly Towards Innocent Neshomeles, Gevalt!!!

What is that? Also, I'm very immature. I liked your acronym.

Thanks. I'm not immature and I like the acronym

Well, that's what you think! 
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Re: Singularity's Journey 24 Jan 2017 09:54 #304077

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Just Checkin' (Truckin') in.

I'm finding today very jolly. And GYE is really a source of entertainment.

From Gartel's thread about doorknobs, to the nightly emmissions discussion, well, and probably because of being light-headed from an early-morning run and knowing I haven't eaten nearly enough calories to compensate, I am having a good day.

I don't wish to offend doorknob or trinityofnow, but I really enjoy those threads and the backs-and-forths. May your recovery be with much hatzlocha and deep introspection. Cleanse yourself before your God (cleanses you for you)!

A Great day, a great week. Holiday next week! YAY!! Life's Good. Thank you Hashem. All's good.
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"
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Re: Singularity's Journey 24 Jan 2017 13:24 #304090

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Singularity wrote on 24 Jan 2017 09:54:
Just Checkin' (Truckin') in.

I'm finding today very jolly. And GYE is really a source of entertainment.

From Gartel's thread about doorknobs, to the nightly emmissions discussion, well, and probably because of being light-headed from an early-morning run and knowing I haven't eaten nearly enough calories to compensate, I am having a good day.

I don't wish to offend doorknob or trinityofnow, but I really enjoy those threads and the backs-and-forths. May your recovery be with much hatzlocha and deep introspection. Cleanse yourself before your God (cleanses you for you)!

A Great day, a great week. Holiday next week! YAY!! Life's Good. Thank you Hashem. All's good.

Looks like we got ourselves another dophelglanjer!
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
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GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."

Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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