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Singularity's Journey
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Re: Singularity's Journey 20 Dec 2016 11:33 #300499

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Thanks guys.

BH. All's good. I just like posting sometimes to up my post count so people will like me
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

One day... At A Time :-D


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Re: Singularity's Journey 20 Dec 2016 14:01 #300518

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Singularity wrote on 20 Dec 2016 11:33:
Thanks guys.

BH. All's good. I just like posting sometimes to up my post count so people will like me


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Re: Singularity's Journey 20 Dec 2016 14:01 #300519

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We (at least me) like you because of what you write - whether 10 or 10000 posts - keep them coming

Cos most other SA meeting participants don't have time for the forum

KOP!!
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Re: Singularity's Journey 20 Dec 2016 17:23 #300570

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Singularity wrote on 20 Dec 2016 11:33:
Thanks guys.

BH. All's good. I just like posting sometimes to up my post count so people will like me

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Re: Singularity's Journey 21 Dec 2016 09:06 #300683

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Markz wrote on 20 Dec 2016 14:01:
We (at least me) like you because of what you write - whether 10 or 10000 posts - keep them coming

Cos most other SA meeting participants don't have time for the forum

KOP!!

Keep on Purchasing (monstah trucks)?


(btw I know the true message (maybe)) 
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

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Re: Singularity's Journey 21 Dec 2016 09:14 #300685

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A little lesson I learned.

We have a little garden. Say hello:



Looks a little unruly, right?
Actually uninhabitable. Just sand and mud, really. And it's summer. The rainy season for us. UGH! Sukkos was a nightmare.
And we had been back and forth with maintenance for 2 months, and nothing. So I called the CEO or something and told him we can do it, just will deduct off rent. He said go ahead. And a phone call or two and then a day later:



The baby likes it
And my wife is a different person. She is now happy to have friends over, be more social, and a lot less self-conscious.

So the lesson:
Don't ever delay that which your wife wants.
I mean, we could have done this 7 weeks ago.
I was absorbed in my own stuff.

Also don't underestimate the koach of a garden!
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

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Re: Singularity's Journey 21 Dec 2016 17:34 #300742

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Love it! That's the first time I've seen any personal pictures on GYE. I actually admire your fearlessness, I don't know if I would be able to do that. 

CUTE!
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Re: Singularity's Journey 21 Dec 2016 19:09 #300749

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QTπs! Lots of Nachas!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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Re: Singularity's Journey 21 Dec 2016 20:47 #300756

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Great job:clap: totally agree that one shouldn't delay things because we're absorbed in our own little bubble. great lesson/reminder!!
very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: Singularity's Journey 23 Dec 2016 04:51 #300950

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Thanks guys.

Those could be random kids I picked up off the street for the purposes of this picture...

My wife broke her foot! OY ! So if I am inactive, you all know why! mommy+daddy all in one !!!

Daven for a refuah shleima... Talya Bas Leah
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"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

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Re: Singularity's Journey 23 Dec 2016 04:59 #300951

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I hope it wasn't because she tripped over the grass.

Refua Sheleima. and Good Shabbos!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."

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Re: Singularity's Journey 23 Dec 2016 12:59 #300973

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Refuah shliema

i can relate to the situation my wife was sick a few months ago and man was it hell for me.
but i didn't have time for any garbage !
but then again when things settled a little bam HE was waiting for me with open arms
be on guard HE loves it when we get worn down

Have a healthy happy clean shabbos and afreilichen chanuka
very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: Singularity's Journey 23 Dec 2016 14:51 #300989

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Singularity wrote on 23 Dec 2016 04:51:
Thanks guys.

Those could be random kids I picked up off the street for the purposes of this picture...

My wife broke her foot! OY ! So if I am inactive, you all know why! mommy+daddy all in one !!!

Daven for a refuah shleima... Talya Bas Leah

Refuah sheleimah.

IsI talya bas leah a random name as well?
No difference, God knows who we are prayin' for.
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Re: Singularity's Journey 27 Dec 2016 15:22 #301276

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It's real! But who really knows hebrew names as well? How machmir anonymous do you wish to be?



BH 26 clean days. ODAAT.

I stuck to a goal of mine and ran a prestige 12km route around a golf course nearby. I wanted to do that for years but one menacing hill always gave me cold feet. But on the morning of the 26th, I gave myself cold feet and set off in the dark, cold and rain for a life-changing run. And I did it! Yay! I love living out of the lust bubble.



And what did I use on my run to make it up that vertical incline?

O     S      A      A      T

ne    tep   t               ime



!!



Thanks GYE! Helping me in ruchniyus as well as Gashmiyus!!!
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"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

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Re: Singularity's Journey 27 Dec 2016 15:28 #301279

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I appreciate your post, but if lust was just a ruchniyos issue for you, you sure as hell wouldn't be in 12-step meetings.
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