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Singularity's Journey
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Re: Singularity's Journey 21 May 2020 16:07 #350137

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A very wise person once told me
Singularity wrote on 15 May 2020 03:43:
Yes we lie to ourselves!!! We gotta be honest about that
נאָך אַ שריפה ווערט מען רייַך - After a fire one becomes wealthy.

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Re: Singularity's Journey 22 May 2020 02:43 #350175

Singularity wrote on 21 May 2020 06:38:
Something bothering me is that whenever I think of my past when I was single, the first thought that comes to mind is "Oh man, that was the life, I could just act out as much as I wanted and nobody really cared. Just eat and act out". I don't know if anyone can relate, looking at the past with such longing? I really have to tell myself afterwards that I am in a MUCH better place right now, wife kids responsibility purpose. And eventually I realise the longing is false. It's funny really.

As a single dude, I can tell ya: Grass is always greener....  
If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time 

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Re: Singularity's Journey 22 May 2020 06:04 #350198

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I did not realise that life was so great until I got married. By then it was too late
The start of 'STARting' is 'star'. Just start and you're a star!!

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Re: Singularity's Journey 24 May 2020 04:16 #350245

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BHYY wrote on 21 May 2020 16:07:
A very wise person once told me
Singularity wrote on 15 May 2020 03:43:
Yes we lie to ourselves!!! We gotta be honest about that


I hate it when people use me against me!!!

I was wiser five days ago than I am now; I was closer to dor ha'midbar!!!
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

One day... At A Time :-D


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Re: Singularity's Journey 24 May 2020 04:54 #350251

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Singularity wrote on 24 May 2020 04:16:

BHYY wrote on 21 May 2020 16:07:
A very wise person once told me
Singularity wrote on 15 May 2020 03:43:
Yes we lie to ourselves!!! We gotta be honest about that


I hate it when people use me against me!!!

I was wiser five days ago than I am now; I was closer to dor ha'midbar!!!

Aww Sing, who can use anything against you? You lighten up all the threads around here!
נאָך אַ שריפה ווערט מען רייַך - After a fire one becomes wealthy.

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Re: Singularity's Journey 22 Jun 2020 04:07 #351613

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Happened to be looking through the 90 day chart, noticed you at 54 days, You're doing great! Keep it up!
Your best teacher for success is your last mistake

Re: Singularity's Journey 25 Jun 2020 04:57 #351776

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Thanks reb Meyer!

A quick checkin.

Sober about 2 months. Loving lockdown life. No commute hassles, no social awkwardness, work from home and surrounded by loving family.

Awesome job doing web development. Leading a small team and working on people skills.

I see all posts here when people have just acted out and they try and kinda explain what happened and I hear a lot of stuff and make up a lot of stuff myself! But really it's just so bizarre there's really no real explanation to it. I recall the part in the big book where it says "and if you ask the alcoholic honestly, he'll tell you he has just as little of an idea why he drank again than you do"
I've tried for years to find the right words.
I see there are no right words. Just action.
God, may I be useful today.
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

One day... At A Time :-D


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Re: Singularity's Journey 25 Jun 2020 06:14 #351780

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Singularity wrote on 25 Jun 2020 04:57:
Sober about 2 months. Loving lockdown life. No commute hassles, no social awkwardness, work from home and surrounded by loving family.
Awesome job doing web development. Leading a small team and working on people skills.

Love your attitude! 

I've got a lot to learn from you.

You are really insightful and inspiring.

Thanks
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Re: Singularity's Journey 25 Jun 2020 14:38 #351795

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Singularity wrote on 25 Jun 2020 04:57:
Thanks reb Meyer!

A quick checkin.

Sober about 2 months. Loving lockdown life. No commute hassles, no social awkwardness, work from home and surrounded by loving family.

Awesome job doing web development. Leading a small team and working on people skills.

I see all posts here when people have just acted out and they try and kinda explain what happened and I hear a lot of stuff and make up a lot of stuff myself! But really it's just so bizarre there's really no real explanation to it. I recall the part in the big book where it says "and if you ask the alcoholic honestly, he'll tell you he has just as little of an idea why he drank again than you do"
I've tried for years to find the right words.
I see there are no right words. Just action.
God, may I be useful today.

Not having to take my kid to school in the other end of town is heaven on earth lol.
I'm also working shorter hours too.
Loving it too.
Keep up the great work!!! Love your content. 
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