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Re: Singularity's Journey 30 Jan 2017 11:36 #304579

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There's no place like home!

Re: Singularity's Journey 30 Jan 2017 14:34 #304603

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Shlomo24 wrote on 26 Jan 2017 18:29:
Frank Sinatra was a famous singer who had a song/album called "That's life."

i am chasidish, i don't really listen to non-jewish music. i think it would trigger me "BIGLY'', as our new president is wont to say
Don't take life too seriously:wink:

Re: Singularity's Journey 30 Jan 2017 23:17 #304642

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thatslife wrote on 30 Jan 2017 14:34:

Shlomo24 wrote on 26 Jan 2017 18:29:
Frank Sinatra was a famous singer who had a song/album called "That's life."

i am chasidish, i don't really listen to non-jewish music. 

Isn't it ironic, don't you think?

Oops, that's a song as well.
I'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble ....

Re: Singularity's Journey 31 Jan 2017 01:44 #304651

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Oops, you did it again
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."

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Re: Singularity's Journey 31 Jan 2017 02:59 #304652

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Sing are you still alive?

If you don't post I get worried that your truck got eaten by a monstah
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Re: Singularity's Journey 31 Jan 2017 03:07 #304653

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Markz wrote on 31 Jan 2017 02:59:
Sing are you still alive?

If you don't post I get worried that your truck got eaten by a monstah

Or perhaps by the Gomondwane Males.
I'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble ....

Re: Singularity's Journey 31 Jan 2017 05:00 #304657

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I think he's doing what all of us would do if we were in the middle of summer
(Vacation!)
Love ya sing hope you are having fun!!

Re: Singularity's Journey 31 Jan 2017 22:09 #304715

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but it's in middle of the zman how can you go on vacation and leave us stranded  

but in all seriousness singer next time tell us unless you want us to come search for you
very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: Singularity's Journey 31 Jan 2017 22:16 #304717

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As long as he's not in Sing Sing 
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."

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Last Edit: 31 Jan 2017 22:16 by Gevura Shebyesod.

Re: Singularity's Journey 31 Jan 2017 22:41 #304721

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Or sucked into a singularity 
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."

"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."

- General Grant



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Re: Singularity's Journey 06 Feb 2017 11:34 #305014

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POOOF. *sizzle*
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

One day... At A Time :-D


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Re: Singularity's Journey 06 Feb 2017 11:43 #305016

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I'm back!

That was my epic re-entrance.

Still trucking! Not to worry, Mark..

Shaky waters.
Beach holidays could do that to you.
Even though we went off peak. Took my glasses off mostly. And only went to the actual beach very early / very late. Still, was tough.

I let my eyes wander on numerous occasions. Just to peek at that woman over there. Not for any longer than 3 seconds at a time. But I knew where my head was at.
Wasn't for the whole holiday. Just the last day or two. Had a lot of stress. Work stuff, all things going awry. BH it's all okay now.

I was so overwhelmed and desired all lust things. Our holiday home was a mess and we needed to pack. And I didn't want to do anything. But things needed to be done.
So I just started to pack up the car.
And I thought to myself as I was lugging bags in the rain and mud:

The best way to deal with the stress of having to do things is, well, doing them.

And that's truer than true to me. And a motivator for not acting out.
Honestly, I set into motion my lustful thoughts a few times. No porn, masturbation, smutty images or anything like that. Just fatigue and the want to check out that woman on the beach. But I glance quickly and glance away. I don't think I need to reset my counter. I think that's a normal struggle. It didn't consume or corrupt me, BH. I asked God to remove my lust on several occasions as well.

Though I need to reset my sushi counter. I kind of had a ball with food these last few days. Not too much, but enough to say I need to wait another 4 weeks for a sushi binge. And the harsh reality helps me affirm my understanding of reward and punishment. It's a good thing.

I'm being brief. What's Pshat with beach holidays? My wife and I both love the ocean. And I love swimming in the waves. And you know what? Most of the time, that was my only motivation to go down to the beach! And I'm proud of that. But are beaches assur? Is it something I need to admit, and surrender as well? It's horrifying. But even one woman in one bikini... is the joy of swimming worth the anguish? I don't know. My head's fuzzy. I reach out to you all.
"Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his sobriety level?"
"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

One day... At A Time :-D


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Last Edit: 06 Feb 2017 11:44 by Singularity.

Re: Singularity's Journey 06 Feb 2017 13:14 #305021

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Singularity wrote on 06 Feb 2017 11:43:
I'm back!

That was my epic re-entrance.

Still trucking! Not to worry, Mark..

Shaky waters.
Beach holidays could do that to you.
Even though we went off peak. Took my glasses off mostly. And only went to the actual beach very early / very late. Still, was tough.

I let my eyes wander on numerous occasions. Just to peek at that woman over there. Not for any longer than 3 seconds at a time. But I knew where my head was at.
Wasn't for the whole holiday. Just the last day or two. Had a lot of stress. Work stuff, all things going awry. BH it's all okay now.

I was so overwhelmed and desired all lust things. Our holiday home was a mess and we needed to pack. And I didn't want to do anything. But things needed to be done.
So I just started to pack up the car.
And I thought to myself as I was lugging bags in the rain and mud:

The best way to deal with the stress of having to do things is, well, doing them.

And that's truer than true to me. And a motivator for not acting out.
Honestly, I set into motion my lustful thoughts a few times. No porn, masturbation, smutty images or anything like that. Just fatigue and the want to check out that woman on the beach. But I glance quickly and glance away. I don't think I need to reset my counter. I think that's a normal struggle. It didn't consume or corrupt me, BH. I asked God to remove my lust on several occasions as well.

Though I need to reset my sushi counter. I kind of had a ball with food these last few days. Not too much, but enough to say I need to wait another 4 weeks for a sushi binge. And the harsh reality helps me affirm my understanding of reward and punishment. It's a good thing.

I'm being brief. What's Pshat with beach holidays? My wife and I both love the ocean. And I love swimming in the waves. And you know what? Most of the time, that was my only motivation to go down to the beach! And I'm proud of that. But are beaches assur? Is it something I need to admit, and surrender as well? It's horrifying. But even one woman in one bikini... is the joy of swimming worth the anguish? I don't know. My head's fuzzy. I reach out to you all.

 I go 5:30 to 8am

I wasn't so worried about your sobriety being away so long
I assumed you were on a 90,000km run

Running on quick sand isn't easy ;-)
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Re: Singularity's Journey 06 Feb 2017 13:25 #305022

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Markz wrote on 06 Feb 2017 13:14:

Singularity wrote on 06 Feb 2017 11:43:
I'm back!

That was my epic re-entrance.

Still trucking! Not to worry, Mark..

Shaky waters.
Beach holidays could do that to you.
Even though we went off peak. Took my glasses off mostly. And only went to the actual beach very early / very late. Still, was tough.

I let my eyes wander on numerous occasions. Just to peek at that woman over there. Not for any longer than 3 seconds at a time. But I knew where my head was at.
Wasn't for the whole holiday. Just the last day or two. Had a lot of stress. Work stuff, all things going awry. BH it's all okay now.

I was so overwhelmed and desired all lust things. Our holiday home was a mess and we needed to pack. And I didn't want to do anything. But things needed to be done.
So I just started to pack up the car.
And I thought to myself as I was lugging bags in the rain and mud:

The best way to deal with the stress of having to do things is, well, doing them.

And that's truer than true to me. And a motivator for not acting out.
Honestly, I set into motion my lustful thoughts a few times. No porn, masturbation, smutty images or anything like that. Just fatigue and the want to check out that woman on the beach. But I glance quickly and glance away. I don't think I need to reset my counter. I think that's a normal struggle. It didn't consume or corrupt me, BH. I asked God to remove my lust on several occasions as well.

Though I need to reset my sushi counter. I kind of had a ball with food these last few days. Not too much, but enough to say I need to wait another 4 weeks for a sushi binge. And the harsh reality helps me affirm my understanding of reward and punishment. It's a good thing.

I'm being brief. What's Pshat with beach holidays? My wife and I both love the ocean. And I love swimming in the waves. And you know what? Most of the time, that was my only motivation to go down to the beach! And I'm proud of that. But are beaches assur? Is it something I need to admit, and surrender as well? It's horrifying. But even one woman in one bikini... is the joy of swimming worth the anguish? I don't know. My head's fuzzy. I reach out to you all.

 I go 5:30 to 8am

I wasn't so worried about your sobriety being away so long
I assumed you were on a 90,000km run

Running on quick sand isn't easy ;-)

neither beach sand : -P

You go alone or with the fam? 
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"... It's over NINE-ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!"

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Re: Singularity's Journey 06 Feb 2017 13:41 #305024

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Singularity wrote on 06 Feb 2017 13:25:

Markz wrote on 06 Feb 2017 13:14:

Singularity wrote on 06 Feb 2017 11:43:
I'm back!

That was my epic re-entrance.

Still trucking! Not to worry, Mark..

Shaky waters.
Beach holidays could do that to you.
Even though we went off peak. Took my glasses off mostly. And only went to the actual beach very early / very late. Still, was tough.

I let my eyes wander on numerous occasions. Just to peek at that woman over there. Not for any longer than 3 seconds at a time. But I knew where my head was at.
Wasn't for the whole holiday. Just the last day or two. Had a lot of stress. Work stuff, all things going awry. BH it's all okay now.

I was so overwhelmed and desired all lust things. Our holiday home was a mess and we needed to pack. And I didn't want to do anything. But things needed to be done.
So I just started to pack up the car.
And I thought to myself as I was lugging bags in the rain and mud:

The best way to deal with the stress of having to do things is, well, doing them.

And that's truer than true to me. And a motivator for not acting out.
Honestly, I set into motion my lustful thoughts a few times. No porn, masturbation, smutty images or anything like that. Just fatigue and the want to check out that woman on the beach. But I glance quickly and glance away. I don't think I need to reset my counter. I think that's a normal struggle. It didn't consume or corrupt me, BH. I asked God to remove my lust on several occasions as well.

Though I need to reset my sushi counter. I kind of had a ball with food these last few days. Not too much, but enough to say I need to wait another 4 weeks for a sushi binge. And the harsh reality helps me affirm my understanding of reward and punishment. It's a good thing.

I'm being brief. What's Pshat with beach holidays? My wife and I both love the ocean. And I love swimming in the waves. And you know what? Most of the time, that was my only motivation to go down to the beach! And I'm proud of that. But are beaches assur? Is it something I need to admit, and surrender as well? It's horrifying. But even one woman in one bikini... is the joy of swimming worth the anguish? I don't know. My head's fuzzy. I reach out to you all.

 I go 5:30 to 8am

I wasn't so worried about your sobriety being away so long
I assumed you were on a 90,000km run

Running on quick sand isn't easy ;-)

neither beach sand : -P

You go alone or with the fam? 

My wife loves to go
i simply can't be there after any bathers arrive, so that's the only time I can take the fam

It happened that she wanted to stay by the water a little longer so I waited for her in the car. Even that can be tough because there are women around the parking area too who haven't heard of vaad mishmeret hatzniyut 
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