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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 03 Aug 2015 18:09 #260737

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Can any fellow strugglers send me their phone numbers so that I can call them if I feel like acting out.

Thanks
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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 03 Aug 2015 19:47 #260746

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How about calling them so that you don't feel like acting out

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 03 Aug 2015 20:10 #260751

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shua73 wrote:
Can any fellow strugglers send me their phone numbers so that I can call them if I feel like acting out.

Thanks


Why dont you start a relationship of sorts thru email or chattin'?
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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 04 Aug 2015 03:19 #260793

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gibbor120 wrote:
How about calling them so that you don't feel like acting out


Doing that now
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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 04 Aug 2015 03:37 #260794

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Just sent a whole bunch of partner requests. I'm not sure, is that the way to do it? or are you supposed to have only 1 partner?
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Last Edit: 04 Aug 2015 03:38 by shua73.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 04 Aug 2015 03:45 #260795

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--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 04 Aug 2015 11:50 #260814

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So is mine.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
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GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."

Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 04 Aug 2015 17:56 #260848

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I don't see your email.
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--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 23 Nov 2015 07:05 #269362

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hey i've been gone for a while. I'm back. Gonna keep a personal diary for my feelings now. See how that works.
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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 23 Nov 2015 15:24 #269396

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Welcome back! Did you come here to connect, or just share your "personal" diary?

Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 23 Nov 2015 18:40 #269404

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Just to keep in touch. My diary is personal. I just write my thoughts out in a doc.
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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 07 Dec 2015 04:13 #270622

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10 days so far proud of myself.
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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 11 Dec 2015 03:42 #271020

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14 days
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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 14 Dec 2015 01:54 #271189

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haivng some trouble wife isn't really interested. Well gotta do alot of work gonna check back in later when I'm still clean
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Re: shua73 gets to 90 and beyond 14 Dec 2015 02:37 #271195

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If your ability not to act out is contingent on your wife's interest, that may cause some issues.
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