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Re: Lomed's Thread 05 Sep 2016 02:10 #294740

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Lomed - Wow!!!

You surfaced in today's email
Amazing stuff!!

SG I was also wondering where Lomed dissapeared to

Here goes

"Recovery Story
By Lomed

First, I want to thank you for this wonderful site. I have no words for you how this site saved my life. B'chasdei hashem, I am sober since I started the 90 days, which is almost a year and a half ago. This is a great miracle, and I am very grateful to Hashem for this site and to Dov and to a few guys on GYE that were very helpful in the beginning of my journey.

However, after becoming sober I had terrible withdrawal symptoms. I went for consultation to Steven Friedman from Monsey. I followed his advice to start going to SA meetings. B"H, in my town there is a very strong heimisher Fellowship. I am in SA for the past 7 months. B"H, I am doing fine and at step 9 of the 12 steps. I have a good sponsor and made many wonderful friends that understand me, with whom I can share in a safe way.

My life had a big turnaround in the last year in a positive way. And thank you Hashem for this wonderful gift"
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Re: Lomed's Thread 05 Sep 2016 16:09 #294761

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Hi all,,

Just toughing Base. Thank you Hashem that I am sober for 558 days (just updated my chart). This is a miracle. I would of sworn to you that this can never Happen. It is tough for me to be here on the forum as i am compulsive and its like another escape. This has detered me from work to much.

However I am safe, to say that B"H i am in Sa and among fellow lovely friends that we support each other and work the steps.

Thank you all here on GYE that helped take the first steps.
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Re: Lomed's Thread 16 Jan 2017 18:05 #303298

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Hi all,

I didn't post for a long time. I am currently in SA since 1/24/16. Was sober since 2/25/15. It is painful to share that I lost my sobriety Sunday early morning after 690 sober days. I am grateful that Hashem gave me since then my first 24 hours. and ask Hashem to give me one more day.

thanks for letting me share.
I currently attend live SA meetings. Feel free to reach out to me.

Re: Lomed's Thread 16 Jan 2017 18:08 #303299

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lomed wrote:
Hi all,

I didn't post for a long time. I am currently in SA since 1/24/16. Was sober since 2/25/15. It is painful to share that I lost my sobriety Sunday early morning after 690 sober days. I am grateful that Hashem gave me since then my first 24 hours. and ask Hashem to give me one more day.

thanks for letting me share.

We love you brother 

And I do too :-)

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Re: Lomed's Thread 17 Jan 2017 08:26 #303346

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Markz wrote on 16 Jan 2017 18:08:

lomed wrote:
Hi all,

I didn't post for a long time. I am currently in SA since 1/24/16. Was sober since 2/25/15. It is painful to share that I lost my sobriety Sunday early morning after 690 sober days. I am grateful that Hashem gave me since then my first 24 hours. and ask Hashem to give me one more day.

thanks for letting me share.

We love you brother 

And I do too :-)

FSKOT!!!!!

Here's to another Two years!! 24 Hours!!! Keep shining!!
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Re: Lomed's Thread 17 Jan 2017 16:53 #303393

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That's hard to share. I am sorry that it happened, it makes me feel sad. You're in SA, you're in a good place. 
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Re: Lomed's Thread 18 Jan 2017 05:27 #303453

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You're going to be ok brother! You have been my inspiration and will continue to be. Like you keep advising me : remember one day at a time
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Re: Lomed's Thread 18 Jan 2017 21:14 #303533

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Hi,
BH i am sober for 3 days, and trucking through this painful time. Although I am in pain, I am grateful that Hashem has showed me so much love and support through many ways. This is a healing process and a journey. May Hashe grant us all a sober clean day.
I currently attend live SA meetings. Feel free to reach out to me.

Re: Lomed's Thread 18 Jan 2017 22:35 #303542

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That's great! Not giving up and with Hashem's help plowing ahead! Three is a chazaka! Stay with us.
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Re: Lomed's Thread 19 Jan 2017 01:16 #303553

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lomed wrote on 18 Jan 2017 21:14:
Hi,
Although I am in pain, I am grateful that Hashem has showed me so much love and support through many ways. 

The רישא I can relate to; the סיפא I struggle with (sadly).
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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
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Re: Lomed's Thread 26 Jan 2017 17:51 #304393

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Hi all,

 i am grateful to be sober since my relapse. This is a miracle of Hashem. I am asking from Hashem to keep me sober another day.
I currently attend live SA meetings. Feel free to reach out to me.

Re: Lomed's Thread 26 Jan 2017 17:56 #304394

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lomed wrote on 26 Jan 2017 17:51:
Hi all,

 i am grateful to be sober since my relapse. This is a miracle of Hashem. I am asking from Hashem to keep me sober another day.

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Re: Lomed's Thread 26 Jan 2017 18:19 #304397

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צ"ל טראקינ'

או טראקין

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If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


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Re: Lomed's Thread 26 Jan 2017 18:24 #304400

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You going to let it out on the gimmel also?

Re: Lomed's Thread 26 Jan 2017 20:48 #304427

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cordnoy wrote on 26 Jan 2017 18:19:

צ"ל טראקינ'

או טראקין


גם צ״ל מאנסטאה
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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