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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 02 Mar 2015 17:09 #249741

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KOMW!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."

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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 02 Mar 2015 17:17 #249742

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I appreciate your courageous share.
KOT or wagonning- WEYCI(what ever you call it). PLEASE! we need every one of the יהודים. The טייגער can come along- as long as he doesn't transmorgrefy into an עמלקי!

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 02 Mar 2015 17:17 #249743

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boy, those are deep thoughts for a six year old!
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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 02 Mar 2015 17:22 #249744

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Sorry 2 hear.
As I recall Cords sayin- today................today! :-)

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 02 Mar 2015 17:32 #249745

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Bigmoish i salute with full respect your good and positive predisposition towards the bumps you encounter on the road to tahara. I have a strong feeling that Tahara is getting closer and closer within your reach . We wish you Hatzlacha on your journey , it is well deserved for heros like you .

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 02 Mar 2015 18:20 #249749

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it is: Today! Damn it! Today!

And Moish; great stuff; it's a jungle out there.
One twig at a time.

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GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
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"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 11 Mar 2015 16:10 #250330

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may be after heating up that jungle, shining loads of sun on it, warming it, drying it out completely, then after a long period of dryness, maybe maybe, we can ignite it, and get rid of the whole mess at once!
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 30 Apr 2015 03:57 #253520

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Today marks 9 months since my first post, the gestation period of a human being.
As such, I feel it appropriate to reflect a bit.
When a we are born, we are in no way finished growing or developing. We are just given certain abilities and tools that we must spend the next several years honing and fine tuning.
In similar fashion, I do not feel I am close to any type of permanent resolution of my issues. However, over the last 9 months, I feel I have been granted many gifts. Most important among them are the multitudes of friends I have formed relationships with through this site, who continue to advise me, listen to me, guide me, and sometimes just schmooze with me every day. I have also come to many stark realizations about myself and my thought process, specifically regarding lust, honesty, and other things.
I "hope" to continue using these gifts to progress forward in my life.
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www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/236327-Bigmoish-tries-to-be-good
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

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"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 30 Apr 2015 04:25 #253525

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Thank you for sharing. I'm enjoying and getting chizuk from the sober attitude and wisdom in your posts. ty.
Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

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--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 30 Apr 2015 11:24 #253540

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It's been a pleasure working with you, my friend, may we be able to continue working together for many long years!!

Notice, btw, that you got 5 "Thank You"s (at the time that I a posting this) for such a small post, I think that should show that people are quite interested in your experience, after all, you have been here for 9 months already!!

KOP!!!!!
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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 30 Apr 2015 17:33 #253567

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Btw, you could be up to 2 weeks overdue. Can we have another deep message then (or before)?
BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?!
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STORY TIME :)

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Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 30 Apr 2015 19:54 #253583

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Your style which mixes great wisdom with a touch of humour is really inspiring !
May the next important date for you comes quickly to hear more of your words...

Oh wait ? One day at time ?! Each single day is a date you say ?
May we can hear your wisdom everyday then

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 30 Apr 2015 20:40 #253586

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They are all just "imaginary numbers"...
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My threads:
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/236327-Bigmoish-tries-to-be-good
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
"Today, damn it! Today!" - cordnoy
"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
"We are our own worst observer" - eslaasos's therapist
WDHW!!!
Last Edit: 10 May 2015 13:44 by Bigmoish.

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 30 Apr 2015 20:43 #253587

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Now what's that supposed to mean?
BIG SHOT!
Free Choice?!
Yirai's Memories
STORY TIME :)

Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go.

FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards)

613stillgoing@gmail.com

Re: Bigmoish's path to tahara 06 May 2015 12:01 #254009

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Pidaini wrote:
Notice, btw, that you got 5 "Thank You"s (at the time that I a posting this) for such a small post, I think that should show that people are quite interested in your experience, after all, you have been here for 9 months already!!


Seems about 14 or so now.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.
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