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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!
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30 Days 05 Jan 2009 16:48 #1837

  • poshut yid
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Baruch Shehechiyanu Lazman Hazeh! B"H I have been succesful and completed 31 days of not looking at pornography norbeing mashkiv zerah levatoloh. It may not have been perfect in all aspects but B"H I was succesful in getting to this point. IY"H I will have the strength to continue to fight the yetzer and continue to grow in Avodas Hashem!!!
I know the seforim write about it taking 30 days to break a middah. I am not sure if this applies also to breaking the yetzer horah for z'nus but I am hoping that at least I can think that I have broken the habit of turning on the computer and surfing for pornography.
I only hope that I am able to continue. Thank you for your efforts and help. I know I could not do it without everyone's help and encouragement.
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Re: 30 Days 05 Jan 2009 19:56 #1838

  • jack
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rabbeinu guard, you must be kvelling to see all this progress.
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Re: 30 Days 05 Jan 2009 20:31 #1840

  • the.guard
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Hashem must be Kvelling that he has such holy and worthy children!

I wrote him two days ago the following:

If I came down to this world just to help a Pashut Yid serve his father in heaven a little bit better, my entire life would be worth it. I have tears in my eyes as I write this.
Keep strong Tzadik. We need brave soldiers like you, now more than ever!
Webmaster of - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest.
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