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Jekyll & Hyde
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Jekyll & Hyde 28 Aug 2019 16:08 #343189

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A dear friend of mine posed a legitimate question to me in the chat section of this wonderful site. As I am a form of a skitzo, and I have multiple identities, profiles and personalities, on the hypothetical miraculous situation that my wife would be intimate with me, would she then become forbidden to me?
allow me to itemize the issues:

Would it make a difference if I could pinpoint just which side of me was active during that sexual moment (in the singular, as I could never hope that it would be extended time)?

What would happen if both sides were active simultaneously? Would that constitute an orgy?

If the moment was forced (strongly encouraged, which might be legal according to the Kings on this site), would that play a role (shut up you perverts)?

Can one part of me warn the other?

Is it even seclusion?

How dark must we make the room?

What an idiot I am! My wife is a frummie and she is simply being machmir on all these questions. And here I was blaming her for all these years. Poor girl. 

For a later discussion: what happens if the wife has multiple personalities? Where is Dr Bleich when you really need him?
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Re: Jekyll & Hyde 28 Aug 2019 16:24 #343191

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I realy think its good question !I say she is forbiden,but then on the other hand maybe not.Gye has a Rabbinic Bored ,you should ask them and share withthe Oilem
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Re: Jekyll & Hyde 28 Aug 2019 16:29 #343192

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Markz wrote on 28 Aug 2019 16:24:
I realy think its good question !I say she is forbiden,but then on the other hand maybe not.Gye has a Rabbinic Bored ,you should ask them and share withthe Oilem

I'm sure they won't be bored any longer.
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Re: Jekyll & Hyde 28 Aug 2019 17:33 #343199

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Trouble wrote on 28 Aug 2019 16:08:
A dear friend of mine posed a legitimate question to me in the chat section of this wonderful site. As I am a form of a skitzo, and I have multiple identities, profiles and personalities, on the hypothetical miraculous situation that my wife would be intimate with me, would she then become forbidden to me?
allow me to itemize the issues:

Would it make a difference if I could pinpoint just which side of me was active during that sexual moment (in the singular, as I could never hope that it would be extended time)?

What would happen if both sides were active simultaneously? Would that constitute an orgy?

If the moment was forced (strongly encouraged, which might be legal according to the Kings on this site), would that play a role (shut up you perverts)?

Can one part of me warn the other?

Is it even seclusion?

How dark must we make the room?

What an idiot I am! My wife is a frummie and she is simply being machmir on all these questions. And here I was blaming her for all these years. Poor girl. 

For a later discussion: what happens if the wife has multiple personalities? Where is Dr Bleich when you really need him?
For an explanation on my choice of username and avatar see my first post 

Re: Jekyll & Hyde 28 Aug 2019 17:37 #343200

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Are you strongly encourageing forcing a wife?!
the Sheila with the wives multiple personality might be a problem with cherem dirabenu Gershom
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Re: Jekyll & Hyde 28 Aug 2019 18:01 #343202

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Does  dr.bleach deal with multiple personalities?
 is dr. Bleich a rov/rabbi?
Is dr.bleach a rabbi dr.?
is a rabbi dr.considered multiple peronalities?
 If yes,can rabbi dr bliech treat himself?
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Re: Jekyll & Hyde 28 Aug 2019 18:11 #343203

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sleepy wrote on 28 Aug 2019 17:37:
Are you strongly encourageing forcing a wife?!
the Sheila with the wives multiple personality might be a problem with cherem dirabenu Gershom



Personally, this first discussion always intrigues me. So I will take a stab at it. As a matter of fact, I discourage it. There are, however, those on this site who do encourage encouragin', or insistin' insistence, or cajolin' cajolement. You get my point. They basically say that the husband should demand enforce plead for his right.

Regardin' your second point, good point. But that would be if the wife has a dual identity. The questions are endless. The rabbis would need to put great effort into this, somethin' my wife (& perhaps trouble's) is/are not willin' ...
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